7 Tips to Politely Say, “No” S2EPI - 141

7 Tips to Help You Learn to Politely Say, “No”

Have you ever had someone ask you to do something and you wanted to say “no”, but you blurted out “yes” instead?

If so, you’re not alone. Many people have a tough time saying “no”.

7 Tips to Help You Say "No."

1. How to say “no” when someone asks to borrow money from you.  

• “Oh, I’m really sorry, but I made a decision a while ago never to lend money to others.”
  

2. When a coworker asks you to give money toward a gift for the boss or coworker.

• “I’d love to, but I haven’t gotten the chance to get to know them very well. I will wish them well the next time I see them.”  
• “I’m not currently spending any extra money on anything. I’m on a strict budget.”
  

3. A friend, spouse, or boss asks you to do something for them, but you are already swamped to the max.

• “I just can’t. My plate is incredibly full and ready to flow over. If it’s a dire need, let me see if I can rearrange my schedule, but I think someone else may be able to help you out faster.”

4. Someone asks you to go out to dinner, to a party, or another function and you simply don’t want to go.

• “Oh, I’m sorry but I’ve already got a commitment during that time.”
• “Thank you so much for the invite, but I’m going to have to decline.”

5. Someone asks you to be on their committee or team and you don’t want to.

• “I’m not in a position where I can freely volunteer right now, but I’m sure you’ll be able to find someone who is willing.”

6. Someone asks you out on a date and you’re not interested in dating anyone.

• “That’s very nice of you to ask, but I’m not in a place in life where I want to date anyone. I’m taking some “me” time, but thank you anyway.”

7. You’re asked to perform a job that you have no desire to do.

• “I wish I could, but I can’t take on one more commitment right now.”
• “I really don’t think I’m the right person for that.”

It’s Ok to Say “No”

Memorize some of these ways to say “no”, so the next time you’re in a position where you want to decline, you’ll know exactly what to say.